Dating a gold digger
On the other hand, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to date someone that is financially stabile. She Kicks You When You’re Down A good woman cares about your happiness as well as her own.Most people, men and women, want a partner that can take care of themselves, is responsible and isn’t wracked with financial problems. If you say you’re worried about losing your job she’ll feel concern for you, not start looking around for an upgrade.Search for signs of generosity and gratitude towards you. ” can be asked in an attempt to figure your net worth.If she turns up her nose at a gift that is not expensive and would have preferred those Jimmy Choo heels she pointed out the day before, she’s a gold digger. When the bill arrives does she reach for her purse or pretend it doesn’t exist? In fairness, if you have lots more money and take her to places where the bill is equal to her rent don’t expect her to pay. Don’t answer these questions directly, give vague answers or talk about something related to the question.If you try to be upfront and seek an explanation from someone who actually loves you, it is a surety that your relationship will meet an instant demise.Rather than directly confronting your girl, try to identify the following traits that are associated typically with gold digging women: You might have told her about your salary but she wants to know more, constantly scraping for more information about your family status, parental savings and inherited riches and even your savings.They don’t dream about professional growth and are not serious regarding their job.They are happy with whatever little they make that works like pocket money for them.
So in a relationship, rely on your gut instinct and watch out for these signs that indicate you might be dating a gold digger: First date conversations: These aren’t like normal date conversations where you get to know each other or your hobbies or what you do in free time.I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. Give me specifics — bars, restaurants, gyms – What are you looking for in a mate? Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it.I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all. I dated a business man who makes average around 200 – 250. Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings – Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)? I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them — in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.Let me explain, you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next but less so each year. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets.